Desire, Excitement, & Emotional Safety

"The Simplest Secret of Sex" is key to creating emotional safety with your partner. When you learn how to do this, you'll have greater sexual confidence and more opportunity to learn and play with new skills. I offer many kinds of support and opportunities for learning, such as:

✵Sex counseling, education, and coaching sessions;

✵My online classes and workshops in special topics and techniques, such as Secrets of Successful Couples (a six-part class based on the famous PREP Marriage Education classes - only $69.95) and Entrancing Erotic Hypnosis ($20);

✵Private and personalized classes in these and other topics, such as an introduction to "sacred space" techniques of tantra. 

✵Calming mind-body skills.

To improve your erotic and intimate communication, I recommend:

✵Coaching sessions to learn how to talk with your lover(s) and express your intimate desires;

✵Plus the Secrets of Successful Couples course to improve overall communication in your relationship(s);

✵Learning specialized negotiation skills such as Safe, Sane, & Consensual and Risk Aware Kink; and polyamory and non-monogamy negotiation skills.

To help diminish or overcome the effects of shame and trauma on your sex life, I offer:

✵Counseling, education, and coaching, including practical skills to manage and "work around" the impact of trauma or shame on your intimate relationship(s);

✵Sexological hypnosis to help you imagine and achieve a more fulfilling sex life.

To assist you in feeling respected and supported in your authentic gender and/or sexual expression, I offer:

✵Counseling, education, and coaching;

✵Sexological hypnosis to boost self-esteem, address body issues, and manage the stresses of coming out or otherwise dealing with sex-negativity and prejudice.